Refleksi Ramadhan

30/6/2016

Alhamdulillah, safely arrive home. Last two days just finish my last paper for law school. Now preparing for syariah course for september.

Punyalah cantik aturan Allah. Dulu waktu habis spm, beriya nak ambik syariah. Tapi, apply tak dapat. Yang dapatnya, law. Nak tak nak, redah jugak untuk asasi sampai ke degree. Walaupun dulu everytime dalam kelas, mesti tanya Ya Allah, kenapa aku kena belajar sume ni. Law is too dry!

Tapi.. kadang-kadang Allah saja letak kita dalam sesuatu keadaan, just nak tengok kita. Sejauh mana kita ni redha dengan ujian. Bukan Allah tak tahu, hambaNya yang sorang ni memang obses dengan syariah. Allah tahu. Tapi, Allah nak kita belajar. Belajar benda yang kita tak suka. Sebab kalau benda kita suka, bila2 boleh belajar. And now, sedar tak sedar dah habis pun 4 tahun law school. Siap Allah bagi lagi terus masuk syariah line, and ibu willingly to sponsor. See, bukan Allah tak tahu minat kita. ALLAH just tangguhkan je hadiah untuk kita. Huhu

And after that, entah macam mana boleh nampak hikmah Allah lagi satu, bila ada member tanya advice. Out of nowhere, the words come. Even I surprise about that. Ya Baari'.

It was the issues that comes among our sisters. They are very educated, talented and very committed in dakwah field. However, when they are having taaruf, then the other party wishing them to be at home, raise the kids, settle down the houseworks etc. I personally felt a bit regret for the opinion of those brothers. Didnt they knew that our prophet never put all hos wife at home only. All his wives are ummul mukminin. Even Aisyah become one of the perawi hadis yang masyur. She teach and convey the dakwah. She become one of the sources about hadis. She is successful.

I personally believe, everyone has their own potential. Even sisters. It was not a correct way if we treat a very good women that good in their education and akhlak to be at home only. They should have a chance to lead the community towards a good society. They must contribute something. Not only to obey his husband, to cater of family, but also to help the society. And it is a responsibility for brothers out there, to understand his wife and support them. We want our community know how keluarga sunnah is. And throw them some light on problems that they are having.

Isn't it?